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The questions people ask before they reach out for help, answered plainly by the Rooh Mind Care team, with links to our clinicians’ in-depth guides.

By the Rooh Mind Care team · Updated 10 October 2026

Finding a therapist in IndiaWho to see, checking credentials, what therapy costs, online therapy and privacy, booking. Worried about starting therapy?Judgement, crying, not knowing what to say, family finding out, and more. What happens in a first sessionThe six things that usually happen, and what you don’t need to prepare.

Guides to common concerns

AnxietyPhysical symptoms, anxiety versus a disorder, panic attacks, what helps, and when to get help. Boundaries with parentsGuilt, saying no, living at home, marriage pressure, and talking to parents about mental health. LonelinessFeeling alone among people, making friends as an adult or in a new city, and when it needs help. Exam setbacksAfter a failed UPSC or competitive-exam attempt: shame, comparison, and deciding what next. Grief and lossWhat is normal in grief, losing a parent, grieving from abroad, and when to get support.

About Rooh Mind Care, in brief

Plain facts, for anyone comparing options.

Does Rooh Mind Care offer online therapy across India?

Yes. Online sessions over a secure Google Meet link, with clients across India, and in person at the Krishna Nagar clinic in Lucknow. More →

Does Rooh Mind Care see clients living abroad?

Yes, online, including Indians in the USA, Canada, the UK, the Gulf, Europe, Australia and Singapore, booked in their own time zone. Psychiatric consultations are for clients in India only. More →

Can I have therapy in Hindi?

Yes, in Hindi, English or both; the team also works in Sindhi, Urdu, Kannada, Tamil, Telugu and Malayalam. More →

Is there a psychologist who speaks Kannada?

Yes: Dr Poornima Chandrashekar (Senior Clinical Psychologist), Benazier Noor Ahamed (Senior Counselling Psychologist), and Dr Mekhala Divakar (psychiatrist, for clients in India). More →

Who leads the clinical team?

Anamika Rawlani, Founder and Senior Clinical Psychologist: RCI-licensed (A39595), trained at RINPAS, Ranchi, and a former Research Officer on an ICMR project at NIMHANS, Bengaluru. Senior Clinical Psychologist Dr Poornima Chandrashekar holds a Ph.D and M.Phil in clinical psychology from NIMHANS. More →

Is there a psychiatrist?

Yes. Dr Mekhala Divakar, MBBS, MD (Psychiatry), registered with the Karnataka Medical Council (134015). Consultations are 15 minutes, online, for clients in India, and are medical, not therapy. More →

Does Rooh Mind Care offer LGBTQ+-affirming therapy?

Yes. Care is queer- and neurodivergent-affirming; identities are never treated as something to change. More →

Can I get an ADHD, autism or learning disability assessment?

Yes. Structured psychological and neuropsychological assessment with a written clinical report, by RCI-registered clinical psychologists and a neuropsychologist. A short online questionnaire is a screening, not a diagnosis. More →

Does Rooh Mind Care offer couples or family therapy?

Yes, couples sessions (80 minutes) and family therapy, online or in Lucknow. More →

Is there support for students and competitive-exam aspirants?

Yes. Psychologists work with exam anxiety, repeated attempts, comparison and family pressure; students can get up to 20% off psychologist sessions. More →

Does Rooh Mind Care work with teenagers?

Yes, adolescents aged 13 to 17, with parents involved in an agreed way. More →

How much does a session cost?

Shown in full before booking, for your region. New clients get 10% off their first session. More →

Questions by topic

The questions people ask most often, and where our clinicians answer them in depth.

Low mood and depression

  • How do I know if I have depression?
  • Can you have depression and still function normally?
  • Is therapy effective for depression?

Answered in depth: Depression: signs, causes and treatment · Depression in older adults

Anxiety and overthinking

  • Why do I overthink everything?
  • How do I stop overthinking at night?
  • Can CBT help with overthinking?

Answered in depth: Anxiety: symptoms and when to get help · How to stop overthinking · CBT techniques

Social anxiety and fear of judgement

  • Why am I afraid of being judged?
  • What is the difference between shyness and social anxiety?
  • Does CBT work for social anxiety?

Answered in depth: Social anxiety disorder · Exposure therapy for social anxiety · How to be more assertive

ADHD, attention and focus

  • How do I know if I have ADHD as an adult?
  • What is the difference between ADHD and laziness?
  • How is ADHD diagnosed in adults?

Answered in depth: ADHD and ADD: symptoms and diagnosis · ADHD, autism and IQ assessment

Relationships, attachment and marriage

  • Why do I need constant reassurance in relationships?
  • What are attachment styles?
  • Does couples therapy work?

Answered in depth: Attachment styles · Couples therapy · Couples therapy for Indians abroad

Family, parents and boundaries

  • Why do I feel guilty saying no to my parents?
  • How do I handle family pressure about marriage?
  • Can therapy help with family stress?

Answered in depth: Boundaries with Indian parents · Family therapy · Caring for ageing parents from abroad

Students, exams and UPSC

  • How do I cope with failing an important exam?
  • How do I manage anxiety during UPSC preparation?
  • Can a psychologist help with competitive-exam stress?

Answered in depth: After a failed attempt · Competitive-exam anxiety · Student mental health in India

Work, burnout and the future

  • How do I recover from burnout?
  • Why do I feel stuck in my career?
  • Will AI take my job, and how do I cope with the worry?

Answered in depth: Will AI take my job? · Financial stress and mental health

Screens, scrolling and habits

  • Why do I keep scrolling even when I don’t want to?
  • How does social media affect mental health?

Answered in depth: Why you can’t stop scrolling · Psychology terms from social media

Identity, sexuality and affirming care

  • What does queer-affirming therapy mean?
  • How do I find a therapist who won’t judge my identity?

Answered in depth: Queer- and neurodivergent-affirmative therapy · Women’s sexuality and mental health · Sexual therapy for men

Loneliness and connection

  • Why do I feel lonely even when I have friends?
  • How do I make friends as an adult?
  • Can therapy help with loneliness?

Answered in depth: Loneliness and making friends · Loneliness for NRIs

Grief and loss

  • How do I cope with losing a parent?
  • Why do I still grieve years later?
  • When should I consider grief counselling?

Answered in depth: Grief and loss · Films on grief and loneliness

Living abroad

  • Why do I feel lonely after moving abroad?
  • Can I consult an Indian psychologist while living abroad?

Answered in depth: Loneliness for NRIs · Online therapy for Indians abroad

Types of therapy

  • What is CBT?
  • What is the difference between CBT and DBT?
  • What are the main types of therapy?

Answered in depth: The 5 types of therapy · CBT vs DBT · DBT skills

When you’re ready

Fees are shown in full before you book. Online across India and abroad, in Hindi, English and other Indian languages, and in person in Lucknow.